By Nichelle Lewis

I started this space because I needed somewhere to breathe. Somewhere I didn’t have to be strong, or together, or anyone’s anchor. For years, I was the caregiver, the wife, the mom who could do it all. And for a while, I believed that’s all I was meant to be.

But then life shattered — and nothing has been the same since.

Grief cracked me wide open. Losing my son, Logan, changed everything. And yet, in the quiet, in the chaos, in the moments where I couldn’t even find words to pray… grace still found me.

But here’s the thing I’m learning: it’s not just about being found. It’s about figuring out who I am now. Not the version of me before the heartbreak, or even the one who showed up strong every day for her family. This space — Grace For Me Too — is about the becoming.

It’s for the woman who feels invisible in her own life.

The mom who’s been everything for everyone and is now wondering, “What about me?”

The wife who’s holding onto faith while navigating shifts she never saw coming.

The grieving mother who still has to keep going — even when her heart feels like it stopped.

If you’ve ever felt like you lost yourself somewhere along the way… this is for you.

We are allowed to change. We are allowed to need more.

We are allowed to come back home to ourselves — with gentleness, with grace, and without shame.

This is the beginning of that journey.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. Neither do I.

But if you’re here, maybe grace is finding you too.

With Love,

Nichelle

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